Childhood, Adolescence, Adulthood, and a Mid-life Crisis: A Guide to Reading the Bible

Do you ever struggle to understand  individual books, chapters or verses of the Bible?

Most of us do.  The sixty-six books of the Bible were written over roughly 1500 years by many different authors in three ancient languages, and the books are not arranged chronologically.  It’s a bit like a puzzle.

Individual passages are difficult to place if we don’t have the big picture.  As I was raising my children and learning more about the Bible, I began to form a mental picture of God raising up his people like a parent raises a child. 

So, I humbly suggest a guide to reading the Bible as organized by the development of the nation of Israel through stages of childhood, adolescence, adulthood, mid-life crisis, and maturity.  And that’s just the Old Testament.  (I’ll add some thoughts on the New Testament in my next post.) 

Infancy and childhood

The nation of Israel developed in the womb of Egypt and was delivered through the waters of the Red Sea into its infancy in the desert.  God led his young nation with a very physical presence (fire by night and a cloud by day,) he fed them soft food (manna) and disciplined them like a parent disciplines a toddler.  (You can read this in Genesis through Deuteronomy.)


After forty years of childhood, the nation was ready to move into its Promised Land.  They had to fight for territory and establish themselves in the land, and it wasn’t always pretty.  God appointed, anointed and led through individuals called judges during these years.  The phase of Israel’s history can be compared to teenage or young adult years.  It is characterized by both immaturity and obedience, success and failure, and plenty of rebellion.  (See Joshua, Judges and Ruth for these turbulent years.)


After centuries of volatility, the people of Israel asked God for a king.  They wanted to be like all the surrounding nations. (Sound familiar?)  God warned them that they would be sorry one day, but he instructed the last judge, Samuel, to anoint the first king, Saul.  Saul was a disappointment, and eventually David replaced him.  David and his son, Solomon, reigned over Israel’s glory days, the peak of her “adult” life in the ancient world.  She was wealthy, prosperous and powerful, but certainly not perfect.  (See 1 and 2 Samuel, 1 Kings 1-11, many Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Song of Songs for this stage of Israel’s life.) 

Mid-life crisis

After Solomon died, Israel had a series of mid-life crises.  She was attracted to the ways and the gods of surrounding nations and waffled between the true God and worthless idols.  Some of the kings during these years led the nation well and God blessed them accordingly; others led them straight into idolatry.  This went on for centuries until Judah and Israel (they had split into two nations during this stage) were so far from God that he was forced to bring judgment on them both.  (This painful progression is described in 1 and 2 Kings, 1 and 2 Chronicles, and the prophets Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, Hosea, Joel, Amos, Obadiah, Jonah, and Micah.) 


Jerusalem was destroyed, along with most of God’s people, and those who survived lived in captivity for seventy years, after which God arranged for a remnant to return to Jerusalem.  They were no longer a political nation, but they still were an influence in the world as God’s people.  They had learned the dangers of idolatry, acquired the wisdom of experience, and they mourned for all that they had lost.  (Read about this in Ezra, Nehemiah, Esther, Daniel, Zephaniah, Haggai, Zechariah, Nahum, Habakkuk and Malachi.) 

This parallel helps me to better understand the context of God’s interactions with his people. 

If you read the transcript of a conversation between a parent and a toddler as if the interaction were between a parent and an adult, you will find it confusing.  So, when we read of God giving the infant nation of Israel very specific and detailed instructions in the Law, like a parent telling a toddler not to run into the street, we understand that he was blunt because they wouldn’t understand the nuances of adult reasoning.

As the nation matured, however, God desired relationship, love and loyalty as motivations for their obedience rather than the perfunctory rule-following of childhood.  His expectations of and interactions with his people at the later stages of their development should be interpreted in that context.

God always wanted love and obedience from his people, not because “He said so,” but because they genuinely desired to honor and love Him. 

He desires the same from us. 

At what stage of development are you in your relationship with God?

15 thoughts on “Childhood, Adolescence, Adulthood, and a Mid-life Crisis: A Guide to Reading the Bible

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  1. Hi Judy – Here I am reading this exactly one year after you posted it! This is a very interesting post; I’ve never heard an interpretation like this one before. We often get hung-up on individual scenes/episodes in the Bible, sometimes wondering “Why is God so harsh?” or “Why does He give them so many second chances?” etc. But it makes so much more sense if He is relating to His people according to their developmental stage. And our obedience must be all the sweeter to Him if it is done out of love and not legalism. Thanks for sharing this link with me.

    1. Thanks you for taking the time to read this Jeannie. (I didn’t even realize the date alignment:). I’ve not heard or read this interpretation either – it’s my own little theory. I think it holds up though:).

  2. Hi Judy. This is a very good and thought provoking article. We often speak of spiritual maturity levels among believers but your post illustrates this in a very clear way, and clarity is good! We are not only supposed to grow and mature as human beings in general but also spiritually. Yet, the majority of those who profess Christianity might be mature, responsible, and on course in accordance with their physical age, but not necessarily as mature as they should be spiritually. The Lord Jesus is our example. He was also the example of the early community of believers but they were far more mature than Christians of later ages generally speaking. They are also our example and we should strive to gain such spiritual maturity and strength.

  3. Hi Caddo,
    That is a great place to be, Caddo, at age fourteen or…ahem…older:) And I too am grateful for His loving settling voice and presence. So thankful to be his child at any age!

  4. Most days I’m in the early teen years (before they hit that “I know everything” stage)–giddy with excitement, silly, still wanting to be with my “Dad” (God), usually eager and interested to learn more about Him, prone to drama and only-occasional sulks. Lots of times I hear Him say, “settle down–and Listen to Me”, in His quiet loving voice. Because, in reality, I’m quickly nearing 60–I have the benefit of “some degree” of maturity over a fourteen-year-old. It’s great–I wouldn’t mind staying in this mindset with Him the rest of my days! God bless you, Judy–love, sis Caddo

  5. Hi Judy,
    interesting question, when I look at my own life I am an infant in Christ, when I look at His life in me I am a spiritual giant. cheers, G

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